And AFAICT, the US tax code is at least half decent about recognizing charitable giving -- that is, letting people distribute their money that way or other ways -- as a legitimate offset to a personal tax burden.
Possible it could be better.
It looks to me like we don't see a lot of personal stipend style charitable giving, though.
(There's a significant presumption in the phrase "my money", but that conversation usually goes about as well as threading the proverbial camel through the eye of a needle, probably for much the same reasons.)
Actually, most people don't like it because they've seen how the government "redistributes" their money and most of the time it's wasted.
This is why religious institutions tend to get so much in donations. People trust their church more than their government.
http://www.policymic.com/articles/48003/14-ridiculous-ways-t...
"Gitmo detainees also have a soccer field funded by American taxpayers. Don't worry, it only cost $750,000 to build."
"The federal government pays pensions of deceased employees, costing $120 million. According to the Huffington Post: "One man, whose father died in 1971, continued to receive payments until 2008 when he himself died, costing the government $515,000, according to the report."
"According to Senator Coburn's 2012 "Wastebook," in 2009, the U.S. Agency for International Development (USAID) implemented a plan "to improve the economic competitiveness of Morocco" costing $27 million"
"$516,000 of your money was spent to make a video game providing taxpayers with the opportunity to relive prom."
Seriously, unless you have truly minimal savings rate like the dirt poor, when you pay taxes you are doing one of two things: building infrastructure or boosting the economy. Surely your taxes COULD be better spent, some government expenditures have higher economic multipliers than others, but wasted? You don't understand economics.
Please provide a citation for this claim, I have not seen any evidence either way.
Sometimes there's not a germane statistic and you might just have to go off of your own lived experience.