I already asked for deletion of all my comments/submission and the account, but never got a response. I'd not be ok with having my account "disabled" like on Facebook. This is not a police database or a highly critical system where deleting records is illegal, dangerous or anything. People just submit links and talk about it, that's all and we all try to be friendly to each other here as good as possible (not always though).
I believe that letting people go and opt-out, or delete their account is not a luxury or an option, but a human right and part of a good customer service too.
My approach to HN (and also by using my real name) is that I don't really need the bulk of my participation removed at any point. If I decide to leave the community, I'm fine with the information in my profile.
This view would be far different if pg were making money off of the content and participation though. Until he is, I don't see the issue with the way things are.