To Stop Procrastinating, Look to Science of Mood Repair
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[0]: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-Habit-Overcoming-Procrastination...
Keeping track of what I've worked on time-wise during a day is something I've attempted many times and it has never taken. Perhaps there is something I am missing.
I have not actually tried Unschedule so I cannot really recommend it but I have read "The Now Habit" and it is the most high-level anti-procrastination book. It goes straight to the root causes of procrastination, IMHO.
I would also recommend Getting Things Done; even if you don't subscribe to the entire method, there are bits that gel quite nicely with the Now Habit; the bit about just starting which this article also touches on falls nicely into place with GTD's "next action" workflow.
http://www.amazon.com/Eat-That-Frog-Great-Procrastinating/dp...
This article stuck out to me in providing relatively clear and immediately applicable strategies that could be a lot closer to a first principles of addressing procrastination.
Knowledge is not power, acting on knowledge is. Remembering to remind yourself to imagine the future feeling of accomplishment, building momentum with small items, and practicing forgiveness might be a realer challenge for many.
An interesting question that this article leads me to wonder is, how do others here remind themselves of their big picture, their why, that leads them to keep their flywheel spinning?
Definitely
"Knowledge is not power, acting on knowledge is."
At first, I totally agreed. Thought I'd tuck it away as a keeper, a small pearl of wisdom. A good thing, right?
But then the bloody NSA thing floated in to my my mind and ruined it. They have knowledge in the form of all that data they slurp. They haven't acted on the vast majority of it, but many people, including the sort of people the NSA are unlikely to ever be even vaguely interested in, have changed their behavior as a direct result of knowing what the NSA has and what could be done with it. So, NSA does have power from knowledge they are not acting on.
Shame, because I do know what you are getting at.
I have difficulties with procrastination as well. I don't recall having met anyone in our realm who says they don't have some difficulties with it.
Generally, I agree with what the article is saying. I have found my own ties to procrastination and emotion; specifically anxiety, which the article touched on.
I think the suggested approach from the article is missing something that I have found to be important for personal growth and also applicable to startups: you must be able to measure your progress. The process of measuring the progress should be easy, if not automatic, and the ability to digest the measured progress should be just as easy.
My blog post from last week[1] shares my personal experience with how I've implemented the approach of measuring (and hopefully defeating) anxiety tied to my procrastination. I go about describing my process to turn those anxieties into actionable and measurable goals that sort of turned into my resolutions for the year.
[1] - http://randomdrake.com/2014/01/02/destroying-personal-anxiet...
Sure, it is simple and obvious, but seeing it visualized that way, coupled with the idea of "mood hygiene" was helpful to me.
http://www.amazon.com/Mind-Over-Mood-Change-Changing/dp/0898... I'm sure if you look you could find other books that are a little more academic than instructional, if that's what you're after.
Edit to add: Even though it looks like it might be, this isn't soft touchy-feely self-help bullshit. CBT has been proven as an effective treatment for things like depression. There's real science here.
Now Habit and Feeling Good both address the feedback loop we create in our own mind. Not the external pressure of life, but the internal dialogue we create around it. 7 Habits is about action steps and asking yourself "What should I really be doing."
And, for a more "runway level" approach to borrow the phrase from the next one: Getting Things Done.
EDIT: I was just about to add CBT, but I see someone beat me to it. Feeling Good is by one of the early practitioners of CBT.
(Unfortunately, I don't have the details in front of me and couldn't pull them up quickly via Google. Maybe someone else can provide a link).
I believe the biggest difference between medicine and reading was relapse rate rather than a big difference in how much improvement people saw.
I believe them. They're persistent strategies.
That's like telling a depressed person to just feel better. I've tried a lot of things to help with procrastination but very little works, this is just another thing to try that maybe will or won't work.
Also, personally, I've never had the "suffering" from failing when I put things off, so it's hard to believe that this method would work for me :(
Easier said than done, of course. Did I mention I'm procrastinating?
If I'm in a mood for putting things off, this provides an "excuse" that at the same time eventually results in a list that's fine-grained enough to convince myself to "just knock off a couple". Once I've then started, it's a lot easier. Sometimes it can lead to ludicrously detailed lists...
The Now Habit has solid advice. But it takes a lot of effort to implement that advice.
Get yourself together first. Sleep! A minimal Schedule! Rituals! Build a structure for yourself. If you fail here assess yourself and build up a structure for your in small steps from there. This works for me. If it does not work re-examine the situation, adapt. You need a minimal structure before you can even start to working on yourself.
Learn about stress and how it affects your mind and your body.
The basic idea is to switch your mind into a more mindful state so you can act conscious. You don't need meditation for that. That is in my experience too complicated if you have bigger issues. But these mindful moments. Work towards them. Their effects multiply.
Nothing will work without effort. That's a sad truth but a little momentum (even if it is external) can go a long way.
No need to be perfect. No need to aspire some vague world class. Just do the next logical thing that needs to be done. If this thing is to big, divide and conquer. Iterate.
Ah well... honestly would be nice if my words would help. Without being able to act upon it's all just talking and no walking.
Since getting a Jawbone UP, I'm pretty rigorous about my sleep as I was able to get real data showing when/how sleep affects me and I have been able to optimize the right amount of sleep and when the best windows for waking up are, it's been a great help in building a better structure for my day-to-day.
I'm really self aware, I can tell when I am stressed (though this took work to develop, I wonder if that's generally true, I didn't know what stress was, or rather, I couldn't identify it in myself until I was about 27).
Everything does fall apart when there are strong external stressors that cannot be remedied with even your own hard work, but that's a separate issue I think.
For me that's exactly it. I have yet to find something that works. I don't know. Not giving a fuck does not work for me.
That's the worst. A lot of people with ADHD (myself included) find that the stress response of an impending deadline is an extremely effective medication. It's a horrible way to live, but it reinforces itself by getting results.
That said, "just get started" is the closest thing to useful advice this article offers. Thinking about how good you'll feel when you finish a task barely qualifies as a "strategy", thinking about how bad you'll feel if you don't finish the task is exactly the kind of automatic response that causes procrastination, and "easy things first" is the kind of behavior that quickly leads to a todo-list you can't even bare to look at.
Beyond that, all the article offers is a piece of jargon to name the obvious motivation behind procrastination: doing something to distract you from an unpleasant obligation.
We should meditate on why surfing Facebook is "bad mood repair" but forgiving yourself is "good mood repair." If it's bad to feel good, maybe forgiving yourself is just another way to dodge your responsibilities? The advice presented in the article offers no escape from this psychological tangle, except projecting yourself into an imagined future, where your present work is done -- but you don't feel any more like working (so start now).
The truth is, feeling good only helps. You should feel as good as possible, and make time for the things you enjoy. Be understanding with yourself, and feel free to just watch TV sometimes. At the same time, dial down your anxiety and worry. This is helped by not racing to react when you feel anxious -- to distract or fix or rationalize -- but just breathing deeply and carrying as best you can. Finally, get in touch with who you are helping now, who you are being now, how you are serving your values and what's important to you now, and what progress you can make now -- not in the future. Get in touch with your motivations and what you care about. If you don't care enough about something in your life, try not doing it. You can choose your life and your work (at least, once you get out of school). Don't clean your car, then. Oh, that bothers you? Enough to clean a car? Sit with your anxiety for a bit and observe it without reacting. It will pass if you face it head on.
Time management is also a whole skill unto itself, like math or small talk. It takes practice. There are no bad activities (among the usual ones cited, like surfing the Internet), only bad uses of time. And you're in charge of your time. What do you want to achieve with it? If your ideal life is to sit around all day and you can afford it, go for it.
http://www.amazon.com/The-War-Art-Through-Creative/dp/193689...
Instead of overanalyzing procrastination, he identifies the invisible but real force of Resistance and how to deal with it.
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What I took away from those two books were that the /only thing/ that will help you is sitting your ass in the chair and doing the fucking work.
Telling someone with procrastination issues to "Just get started" or in other words "Stop procrastinating" seems as effective as telling someone with a smoking habit to "Just stop smoking".
Wow, I wonder what it takes to become one.
In the process of doing work, people are generally happy and can even get into a flowful state. That's even true for most people with mood problems-- if they can get themselves there. But the anticipation of work or change or even playful activity like exercise is often an anxiety-ridden negativity-fest. Cleaning an apartment isn't so bad; but the anticipation and feeling of having to do it brings forward all those negative emotions like, "how the fuck did I get to age <X> and still have to do my own cleaning? Why can't I get my goddamn shit together and take ownership of my career?" It's much easier to just do the damn cleaning: even high-status, rich people have to do it sometimes, it's not a big deal. But the mental and social prison of "having to" clean makes that menial task 10 times worse than it really deserves to be.
I think that people have to reprogram themselves to "just do" instead of fussing about how their work will be evaluated and how long it will take and what might go wrong. That kind of nonsense makes it hard to do anything.
My suspicion is that procrastination (like depression) was adaptive to our primordial existences as pack animals in hierarchies that were brutally enforced. Depression (low libido, physical lethargy) is an adaptation to low status and scarcity-- inappropriate to modern life, but it probably helped our ancestors survive periods of transient low status. Procrastination also seems to be something that we evolved to defer ambitions (especially while young, and unable to succeed in a physical fight) during periods of low status so we could survive into better times. It's the "I'm not ready to do that" reflex. It's incredibly maladaptive to modern life-- in which social status is mostly undefined and a little internal confidence can go a long way-- but given our "winner-take-all" society in which most people lose, it's not surprising that it's at epidemic levels.
I do like your idea about the origins of procrastination, but like almost all evolutionary psychology, it is too easy to make up stories to explain things. Occasionally there is something concrete from the fossil record to work from.
EDIT: I'm pointing the finger at myself as well.