Ask HN: It might be time to shutter my startup
In the first month of operation I ran a story so big that it crashed my server (it was down for a whole day) and I had to invest in a new host.
This new host couldn't handle the incoming traffic so I scaled up to a higher-end VPS plan which still couldn't handle the quick spikes of traffic that came into my site on any given news day.
During this time I was struggling to make any money from the site because my hosting bills were so large. Unlike other founders I never planned to get rich from the site, the mission is simple, spread knowledge.
I've switched to wpengine (can't say enough good things about those guys!) now and all my hosting troubles are gone, luckily. The cost is decent and they can handle any traffic that I can throw at them. I hit the front page of Reddit for about 10 hours and had over 300,000 uniques in 3 days and the site didn't hiccup one bit. I was amazed.
But there is another problem now. Time.
You see, I've been running this project out of my pocket, by myself, on my own time after my work day. Sometimes from 5pm when I'm done until 2 in the morning. Researching, ripping code, adding code, doing whatever I think is right to keep this thing alive and growing. It's my baby.
So there lies the ultimate problem. I have a wife and friends and enjoy being away from computer after my day job is done.
What is more important at the end of the day? A hobby website that I have no intention of turning into a day job any time soon, or real life with friends, family and loved ones? Do I push them aside for a little while longer to keep furthering this dream I have of making the best website about space and the space industry that I can? Or should I call it quits and enjoy my life outside the office?