Email? IM? Skype? Text? The main reason I left Facebook was because of family members getting on it...
Additionally, for email, IM, Skype, and text, you need to know their email address, username, or number to contact them. In Facebook, there's a chance that you can find them by just searching their name.
If someone (family or not) does not have my email address and/or phone number there is a reason for it so certainly won't want them contacting me on Facebook...
I know that i wont if id had to write an email, which i dont even have for many of my contacts from these times.