>    >>> list(b'abc')
  >    [97, 98, 99]
  >That's not a list of numbers... that's a list of bytes!

No, it's a list of numbers:

  >>> type(list(b'abc')[0])
  <class 'int'>

I think the GP mis-typed his last example. First, he showed that ''.join('abc') takes a string, busts it up, then concatenates it back to a string. Then, with ''.join(b'abc'), he appears to want to bust up a byte string and concatenate it back to a text string. But I suspect he meant to type this:

  >>> b''.join(b'abc')

That is, bust up a byte string and concatenate back to what you start with: a byte string. But that doesn't work, when you bust up a byte string you get a list of ints; and you cannot concatenate them back to a byte string (at least not elegantly).