The pain is painful [in Python 3] primarily for library authors and only at the extremities. If you author your libraries properly your users won't even notice the difference. And in the end as more protocols and operating systems adopt better encodings for Unicode support that pain will fade (I'm looking at you, surrogateescape).
It's better to be ahead of the curve on this transition so that users of the language and our libraries won't get stuck with it. Python 2 made users have to think (or forget) about Unicode (and get it wrong every time... the shear amount of work I've put into fixing codebases that mixed bytes and unicode objects without thinking about it made me a lot of money but cost me a few years of my life I'm sure).