I think parent was saying that you can't run a single daemon on machine emacs-host and launch clients from needs-editing-a-conf-server1...n (possibly with x11 only running on different host workstation1)?
You seem to be running n daemons on needs-editing-a-conf-server1..n and launching n clients on each of these, and "just" transporting the display(s) back to your workstation via x11 forwarding over ssh.
Henche - either run "redundant" daemons or suffer long-ish startup times.
How much resources does your typical long-running daemon consume?