> "Is it really wrong to say that women could be better or worse (in general) at one thing or another? Is it sexist to even point out that men and women are different?"

Yes to both questions. On the other hand, it's science[1][2]! There's lots of proven differences in personality and ability between the sexes.

When the official ideology is against reality, you have to choose between being a "good person" and a good scientist. It's best for your career to choose the first.

[1] http://jaymans.wordpress.com/hbd-fundamentals/#sex

[2] http://www.aei-ideas.org/2012/09/2012-sat-test-results-a-hug...