LOL your argument against black people being targeted for arrests is percent of arrests as proof of black people "committing more crimes"? Holy shit it's like an Onion article came to comment.
These numbers aren't made-up or based on biased arrest patterns; they're pretty much reality, sad but true.
The only time I experienced racism was taking a vacation in Spain, in a place where there are a lot of french tourists. They get a lot of hate, and me speaking french got me treated like one of them.
I'm a very laid back, cool guy, and I'm usually the last one to get angry. But being at a restaurant and being made fun of randomly by the waiter, and then wondering if someone spat in my food, and having this impression that everyone hated me for now reason...
It was a terrible feeling. But I knew the only reason they were like that was because of a misunderstanding. All I had to do was mentioning I was Swiss or speak Spanish and it would stop instantly.
Now if I had been french, and I had no way to defuse the situation, I can imagine how frustrating it would have been.
Then I can see how things being like that your whole life must feel, specially when its something that stands out as much as your skin color.
I've been extremely frustrated on rare occasions in my life, and I've done things I would never thought I would. Karma is a thing. If people give you shit without a good reason, you'll do the exact same, probably to someone else, just to balance things.
I don't even know what my point was anymore... I just get so tired of hearing everyone blame everyone else except themselves for the directions of their lives.
Bullshit, almost every rags to riches story has a "And I got lucky and _____" it isn't someone overcoming adversity, it is luck that got their talent noticed. I am not saying those who face hardship don't have talent, just saying it rarely gets noticed due to biases.
> Criminals likewise span every demographic in the U.S.
The poor are extremely more likely to commit crimes. You have to exclude economic factors or you cannot compare anything about crime, it is that large of an impact. Heck the "black problem" you list is 90% due to being poor much more often than other groups.
> The "poor" in our country live an order of magnitude better than many in the world
Pointless argument. Let me turn it around on you. The poor don't have to worry about starving to death nearly as much as elsewhere, but because of this they have a ton of spare time. How many things can you do that are illegal and are entertaining + cheap? I bet you can make a long list. This could just as easily be used to explain why being poor is a bigger problem in the US when using the level of logic this thread is using.
> I just get so tired of hearing everyone blame everyone else except themselves for the directions of their lives.
Are we talking about one singular person? Take the OP, he never claims he shouldn't have been treated as a criminal, his only complaints are that he should have been able to see his family, and he shouldn't have gotten 3 years parole for a non-violent offense.
Are we talking about a group, like poor blacks? You can't blame individual things like this for an entire population, it doesn't make sense. We aren't saying Johnny didn't go to college because he is poor, we are saying the poor on average go to college this much less, which for these reasons is because they are poor.
Aside from the lotto and other truly marginal edge cases, I'd say that hard work is not sufficient for success but it is required.
That is, if you take 100 successful people, you'll have 100 who needed some luck to get where they are. And of those, you'll have 99 who also had to work their ass off.
Many people build great products and never make it.
Many people build a great business but it doesn't last.
Luck doesn't determine whether you are able to make it but it does often have a lot to do with whether you get the chance.
With regards to the other sure but none of them will guarantee you a great business.
However most people talking about the American dream are talking about it being sufficient, which is what I was talking against.
Statistically you don't get lucky and get rich (guess what happens to lottery winners a year after they win most the time?) and you rarely work hard and get rich. You can get a little lucky and live a good life working hard, and you can get really lucky, work really hard, and get rich.
Make of that what you want. Perhaps black people are just lazy, stupid? Is that your point? In that case I don't think we will agree on much in life.
> poor black community your chances of making it to middle
> class are many times lower than making it to jail.
To what cause or causes do you attribute that?
> Make of that what you want.
I'd rather not make of that what I want; I'd rather try to determine the cause(s).
You seem to be forgetting that the US system is based around money first and foremost.
If you have money you will be able to attend the right university.
Of course their social status is not the only reason but it's a big part of it and especially the fact that it's very hard to get out of your social-economic status. Add to that an industry that actually makes money when people go to jail and you have the perfect spiral.