When I talk to ex-coworkers, the reasons they often cite for leaving are: 1) weren't empowered to achieve their career goals 2) weren't compensated relative to the value they felt they brought 3) worked on too many failed products and 4) burned out.
When I talk to ex-coworkers, the reasons they often cite for leaving are: 1) weren't empowered to achieve their career goals 2) weren't compensated relative to the value they felt they brought 3) worked on too many failed products and 4) burned out.
In a SV scale-to-the-moon startup, you hire cult members, not employees. You want them to work for minimum wage and equity only.
Sometimes that means hiring people who are naive but can be manipulated in the right directions versus experienced people who have done it all before.
Then, based on past HN articles, you proceed to do your best to scam them out of the equity you gave them.
(I don't disagree with work/life balance in general, but I'm pointing out that your data supports Sam's point that you should give people generous equity for working on a product that's worthwhile, rather than your point that they shouldn't devote themselves 100% to the work.)
My dad works for a government contractor where the profit / margins are fixed, so essentially a "limited" growth company. He's been employed for over 30 years.
Why has he stayed? Because he can work 40 hours a week. His pay is good (EOY bonus is tied to a project success). He holds a position of value (to him not just to the organization). In his career he has seen more product failures than successes, but his successes were large, and he uses the knowledge from each to consult other projects in the organization (eg, he feels valued).
My takeaway is to look at your career in totality - it goes beyond equity and a worthwhile project because in a long career, you'll have many worthwhile projects and many that are not. And for the vast majority of startups, equity is worthless. It also includes interaction with team members and how you want to shape your company's future, and how your company wants to shape yours.
I think on work/life balance, there are populations who care about this, and populations who don't. And this changes over time. When I was younger I was happy to throw my whole life into tough projects. Now that I have a family it's tougher to go "All in" with projects.