But I agree that other write (and read) activity going on in the background and foreground, also limits performance--and in fact, I've seen the index write bottleneck that you describe in real life, more-so than simple transaction log writes. So, you're correct.
I've read about Toku, but I really doubt that it writes faster to disk than writing to memory. Are you really trying to say that?
I think it would be great for InfiniSQL to be adapted to disk-backed storage, in addition to memory. The horizontal scalability will also apply, making for a very large group of fast disk-backed nodes.
I think your input is good.