- No video games. I binge and play again for maybe 1 week a year.
- Spend free time with wife, because that's all she really wants.
- Workout 4-5 days a week. Lift early between 10am and 3pm, whenever I reach a good stopping point. Listen to Mixergy or similar podcast during workout. Do cardio in the evening (between 7pm and 10pm) and sit on the bike for 30 min to 1hr and read.
- Sleep 7-9 hrs/night.
- Never set an alarm.
- No alcohol, tobacco, drugs, coffee, or tea. Ever. Might sound crazy, but it's not hard since I just never started.
- Don't blog or use Twitter.
- Cut hair weekly (short haircut, cut it myself), shave almost daily (whenever I go somewhere). A military habit, but when you look good, you feel good.
- Had a few close calls while deployed (was a Marine for 8 yrs) and learned life is too precious and too short to do anything but my best work and left the Marine Corps as soon as I returned from my last deployment. I started making decisions based on what I'd regret the least, regardless of outcome.
Quitting, after 30+ years, saying, "God bless you" (or really, "Gahblessyou") automatically after someone sneezes. If you stop and think about how dumb this is, it feels really good to break this ridiculous cultural habit. I've been "clean" from this for 2+ years now.
Fighting off this urge and continuing to use the non-dominand hand at something you are bad at improves self-control. You put yourself in a position where you don't quit when something works poorly for you. You make a habit of sticking with things to get better. It's worth cultivating habits that get you exploring things you're bad at.
I admit shaving with the non-dominand hand gets dangerous. But you can witness this effect by trying something simpler like stirring a glass of milk or brushing your teeth.
Anyway, using my non-dominant hand for trivial activities sounds fun. At the very least, should I lose my dominant hand in a light saber duel in the future with a man who claims to be my father, I'll know I've got an adequate backup.
I'll say it loud and proud: "Bless yourself. I am no longer a sneeze acknowledger." I think I'll get that printed on a t-shirt
Just my $0.02. Don't have to agree just my thoughts.
I used the read the news every day (and reading news magazines weekly); what ended up happening is that I also ended up reading through a lot of fluff and reading about a lot of inconsequential mere-fact-stating news. Even if you read the news every week, there's a ton of repeated analysis that you have to filter out. I ended up realizing that this was a legitimate waste of time.
Now I just read the news maybe every month. I'll usually only read long-form synthesis/analysis articles, rather than the kind of stuff that comes in through AP/Reuters. The exception being news articles coming in through HN, of course.
Going back to your analogy, while I'll keep myself updated on the major movements in the civil war in Syria, what I don't need to read about is how 12 people died in a bomb blast on Tuesday in <city> or something extremely-low-level like that.
I found over time that most people's idea of following politics was spending an inordinate amount of time memorizing either side's talking points. And to get really good at it (ie. arguing on forums) you'd simply need to memorize more of these talking points and exchange the proper insults (which always seemed to originate everywhere but my own mind).
Basically, I was done being a parrot and I'm healthier for it.
I am lucky enough to have a couple of friends interested in working on the same project as myself. The habit of all of us getting together for a couple of hours during the weekend has tremendously advanced the project.
It helps to work with friends or people in general, because it rarely happens that none of us are in the mood for working. And when we are, we pull the other ones in.
For about a year before starting this, I would only ever so often sit down to advance the project, but after starting this 1-2 times per week get-together with them, the project has improved (complete code refactoring + 2 versions out on the App Store), in about 3 months.
As well, myself, I have improved as a programmer and have gotten a rekindled interest in programming. I think my friends can agree that it has affected them similarly.
I did a CS master's degree at night while working a full time job programming. After sitting 9 hours at work, I'd sit a few hours in class and then sit a few hours doing homework. After three years, I was a wreck. As soon as I graduated, a buddy of mine spurred me to join a gym with him.
Now I do heavy lifting 3 times per week and interval training 2-3 times per week. I'm not the healthiest eater (maybe I'll fix that next), but I feel great. There's something indescribably satisfying about breaking your own records.
It doesn't matter which exercise you pick. The benefit you get from doing something over nothing is enormous. The important thing is that you do something that you like enough to stick with. As a non-competitive athlete, I find that fitness is 80% attendance.
One of the things suggested by a researcher in the episode, is to make your "cheat day" the day following a fast. Tell yourself that you can eat anything you want, because (and this was certainly my experience) even if you intend to binge heavily, you most likely will not. You will, however, still feel incredibly satisfied after devouring that bag of chips, or splurging on the cheesecake after dinner. I can't remember the exact number, but the researcher mentioned that during this routine, the subjects would only eat around 10% more than their recommended daily caloric intake.
Something that I have noticed is an increase in self-control. Previously my relationship to food had been rather habitual and sometimes even addictive. I've found that fasting has made it a lot easier to control what I eat on the other days...
After some weeks, your hair gets used to having no shampoo.
I'm doing it since 2 months and all is fine.
Buy a tub of sodium bicarb and put it in an old shampoo bottle. Add water and mix - aiming for shampoo like viscosity.
Depends how much hair you have, your activity levels and where you live but start with using it once every couple days. You may end up at once / week, but depends on the above factors.
Use it like shampoo, but more vigorously.
The equivalent would be not using dishwashing liquid for your plates after a greasy meal. Hot water and friction can do a lot, but it is an uphill battle. In the case of hair, your method might just be "good enough", though. But I'm sure your hair won't get the "Gee, Your Hair Smells Terrific" response.
The productivity gains are in the 2-3x range.
http://sportsmedicine.about.com/cs/overtraining/a/aa062499a....
If this individual is overtrained, his body will find a way to stop him. He will become ill from immune suppression or injured from the constant stress that never fully heals, or too depressed to exercise at all.
Body builders have a saying something like, "Muscles are made in the bedroom and the kitchen."
10 hours sleep is a bit excessive for me though :)
After reading an amazing article [1], I have beginning to feel an amazing happiness with everything I am doing now and it just so simple. The trick is to ask yourself every time you start doing something: "What I will be doing now, Will it help me in future in anyway?". Of course, you must not drag yourself to despise everything not related to higher gains but realize that life in the future is function of what you do now, and the decisions you make.
[1]: http://youarenotsosmart.com/2010/10/27/procrastination/
I also stopped checking my email actively in the evening (only once before going to sleep to make sure there are no emergencies) and I try not to touch it more than once on Saturdays.
I have such a clearer mindset now these days.
Try it! You'll see.
I also got back in my old SEGA games and cooking food my mom used to make when I was a kid.
I grew up in church but slacked because life got hectic. Now I'm attending when I can, I'll read the Bible in off time and I've made myself more available to help others.
This might sound stupid, but it's something about the times where all I could do is go outside and play football in the park with my friends that I miss. Now with my younger siblings, I see them so attached to technology, it makes me sad that they're so trapped and in tuned with news and post from people they'll probably never meet instead of the people they're in front of every day...
Funny how most of the comments mention giving up video games altogether and you mention getting back into them.
I was going to through a Seth Godin Book, In which he talk about amygdala, the part of the brain responsible for fight or flight instincts.
After that I started thinking, most of the things I worry about doesn't end up happening. But, I was constantly worrying about it. Sometimes I wont go to business oriented community meet ups, just because my lizard brain throws some 'what if that happens' at me.
Recognizing that part of my thoughts and reacting only to things that really needed my attention helped tremendously in shaping my time, focus and work then on.
Then I started audio books few years back, I read (heard) more than 10 books that year alone, Now I'm just a consumer listening not actively reading. I enjoy books lot more.
The weekends are more liberal. Things are a bit late but the only point is to not to miss the routine.
(2.) Quantified self: Targeting productive and unproductive time with RescueTime, and committing to explicit targets with Beeminder.
(3.) Less but better. Less input but better input. Less output but better output. Afford the luxury of being slow and having time for introspection and inspiration.
(4.) When you can't sleep, don't try to.
- RescueTime: Productive and unproductive time, or specific software/website categories, automatically logged by the computer;
- Draft: Words written every day (just started, but looks promising);
Also successful: binary variables (1 or 0 every day, either done or not done).
I just find it much more satisfying to produce small amounts of (what I consider to be) good output rather than large amounts of mediocre output. This isn't appreciated in all contexts, which is why I've called it a luxury.
I accept the fact that won't ever be mentally at 100% all the time, so I fill my day with many side-projects and can rotate whenever I'm exhausted with one task.
The output quality of each task might not be as high as when I committed myself exclusively to one thing, but overall I learn more and achieve more.
Also reduced the amount of TV/Internet time; started to eat vegetarian practically every day.
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I used to waste so much time watching reruns and trash TV just because it was there when I turned the TV on.
Actually, I'd be super interested to see the evolution of your writing style. Do you have a blog?
1. Stopped drinking. 2. Started running three miles every morning, crack of dawn. 3. Stopped watching TV. 4. Cut out almost all junk/fast food.
The change in my productivity and general sense of well-being has been profound.
Hope that helps, it worked for me.
Actually the only time I managed to quit smoking for more than a few weeks when I was away from my friends/girlfriend for a five months and had no one smoking around me all day. It's easy for me to quit, it takes me a -pretty painless- couple of days. But after a while I relapse.
Closely linked: learned to cook for myself and making an effort to cook something I've never tried once a week.
2. Saying "No" more often.
Also, I know that going after doesn't work out for me. Since at the end of the day I'm tired and it's somewhat of an excuse to miss the gym for the day.
But it's really a mater of taste and lifestyle. Most of my coworkers do at lunch time. This way they don't sacrifice much of their time since it's a forced free time on everybody here anyways.
1. Better sleep. 2. Better weight control. 3. Skin stopped being dry. 4. Better sex life too. 5. Good energy.
I never measure my work productivity.
If I can install Rails 4 then I can prepare the best Curry Chicken out there. I eat more for less money and cooking became part of my hobby that helps to distress a lot.
Also, I was noticing my daily diet was based on the same quantity of dishes, what I meant was: trying different dishes wasn't normal, I hanged out always to the same places with the same menus, at the end eating a different thing was rare.
I go dinner around 2 times a month just to eat those things that are really hard to prepare: sushi, etc.
I am in better physical and mental shape than ever before.
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