Also, that seems like a bit of a magic flag to add / tune, why is that not the default, and would I have to keep tuning it for each of my apps?
Neither the original benchmark nor the response were well researched IMO. This is the Apache vs IIS wars again, where good benchmarks that reveal useful information were drowned out by the noise of a great any poorly executed (or sometimes completely biased and deliberately poorly constructed), with bad test resulting in a bad result for one side being followed by an equally bad test to try prove the opposite.
The point was that NodeJS and PHP were pretty close, and I posted (before the update) that I'm sure Node could go quicker.
You run either of them in suicide mode to RUN ALL THE CONNECTIONS and you'll get a speed up. The point is that NodeJS is not magically 4 or 5 times faster than PHP, they're about the same when you the packages you use support the async approach. This update proves they're exactly the same, but similarity is all I was going for.
Why would that be acceptable, but not a simple config change for NodeJS?