The mindset of the time is reflected in an announcement [1] of the /Ubuntu Foundation/:
""" "It's important for us to distinguish the philanthropic and non-commercial work that is at the heart of the Ubuntu project, from the commercial support and certification programs that are the focus of Canonical Ltd." said Mark Shuttleworth"""
These new pushes to monetize the home user is what is really annoying.
[1] https://lists.ubuntu.com/archives/ubuntu-announce/2005-July/...
The alternative (well polished, reasonably easy/user friendly) is apple and windows. No more free.
I think much criticism is shallow.
It was an apt-get remove --purge .. to remove the things I didn't like. The things I like I can download from everywhere, much much more difficult with Mac/Windows (how would I e.g. get XCode other than through iTunes?)
They should offer a ad-free system, which you pay $10 for, or a free version, supported by ads.