An acquisition negotiation that dies late in the game is especially demoralizing. When you're getting a company funded, you're talking to lots of different investors, and may even have multiple paths to fund the company (institutional VC, a convertible debt round, &c). But failing to close an acquisition feels more like a verdict about the company and its prospects. For one thing, you have fewer potential acquirers than investors. For another, to get even a little bit engaged in an acquisition talk, you have to get yourself in the mindset of a near-future exit.
Things to watch out for:
* The (usually inadvertent) management shift from sales to "business development", where you start bouncing around the industry talking to different people about acquisitions
* Acquirer optionality --- the article correctly points out that the acquiring firm isn't necessarily prioritizing lower valuation about all else, but remember that deals are usually instigated and closed by specific people in the firm, whose careers are most definitely going to be evaluated by the perceived success of the purchase --- long story short, the bizdev guy at your potential acquirer is likely to keep you on the hook longer than you'll be comfortable.
* Infecting your team. I'm actually not sure it's all that standard for acquirers to do rolling team interviews. I've been a part of a couple (and a party to a couple more) now and haven't been formally interviewed despite very senior roles. I'd be wary of letting an acquirer "interview" anyone on my team before I was reasonable sure the deal will close.
The other thing to know about acquisitions is that they are fucking expensive. If you haven't done one, you probably have no idea. You are going to get very, very friendly with corporate attorneys, and if you've got counsel now reviewing sales contracts and whatnot, be aware that the attorneys that manage your warrants and reps and stuff are way way more expensive than those contract review people are.
The good news about legal expense and team risk is that they can be used as deal qualifiers: if an acquirer balks about committing to something before interviewing the team, or about legal costs, the deal might not be there. If it isn't, it's important that you know that!