I'm posting this just to say thank you. I wouldn't have found this if not for your comment.
I'm very glad that I found your praise and clicked the link. :)
As a long time lurker (occasional commenter etc.) I immediately was reminded of this great essay as soon as I saw this current story.
Just in case you folks had not seen, the old discussions:
But once they do become successful, we expect them to be a little giving, be less of a selfish person and help others. Unfortunately he/she was raised to be so self conceited, it would seem inane for them to be nice to others, stand up for others, and help them. Just dropping 2 cents from someone else that had a profound impact on me.