You buy a car. It comes with brakes disabled because for whatever reasons that also lets it get to a higher top speed. You are expected to read you car owner manual and on page 54 you find that you have to hold "enable brakes" button under the console for 10 seconds to turn on your brakes. Would it vex you that people might be slightly critical of that car. Clearly they are silly for not reading their car manual until page 54.
That "feature" is not something that should be discovered by reading docs or when you get a crash and then load a backup from another week and still get a crash and then you start hitting your head on your desk.
Anything calling itself a "database" should not have shipped with those default settings _ever_. If they did they might have gotten away with it in my book by having a big flashing red warning on the front or download page. I don't remember one.