I'm assuming they only know that Rails is slow (which it can be, especially for a case where caching can't help much like in an API) and assume that's because of MVC and not because Rails is monolithic and Ruby-based.
Before I used Rails, I used an MVC consisting of Mongoose + Handlebars + Express in Node.js, and I regularly had pages render in under 10ms. The biggest bottleneck was consistently the communication with MongoDB, something I had very little control over.
So to conclude, stop blaming the architecture, start blaming the frameworks.