Not excusing and justifying? You flipped the blame onto her, calling her a troll, and rationalizing away at the offensive comments. She hinted that she was a woman, and their first response is to ask to see her breasts. That's not humanity, that's objectification. Even if it was an attempt at humor, or an awkward side-stepping of an unexpected "battle", it would not make it acceptable to be so sexist. The fact that such a phrase has become a meme only makes it worse to repeat it.