Well, this topic is about Africa, that is why my comments may seem afro-centric (maybe I also miss my life as a kid in Bondoukou).
The trait I admire most about humans is their ability to adapt to any situation.
And yes, I also admire the expression of that trait in Africa.
And because of this ability to adapt to any situation, the idea I wanted to share is :
Let them do and help only if they are asking for.