Watercoolr, Pubsub using WebHooks
watercoolr.nuklei.com
watercoolr.nuklei.com
The allow file idea is interesting, but we've been talking about it on the webhooks list (as well as the GetPingd list). The pubsubhubbub guys are also thinking about it (since they haven't addressed it either yet).
http://code.google.com/p/pubsubhubbub/
It looks like there's a lot of overlap with the feature set you need, as well as the advantage of some extra documentation + testing. It's a Python WSGI app, instead of Sinatra/Rack, and the data over the wire is encoded as Atom, but there could be some useful lessons to work from at least.
Any context/description/commentary?
From what I can understand, it could be useful in launching a DoS :/
Perhaps have it look for an 'allow' file on the destination first, and if it's not there, don't send any further messages?