> ubiquitous surveillance is much closer to following everybody than noticing everybody
The issue is still that you're likening surveillance to harassment more than you're likening it to an intrusion of privacy. Based on this argument alone, I'm less inclined to agree with your position, because surveillance isn't harassment.
> People's instincts haven't caught up with the reality that is presented by ubiquitous surveillance, so IMO the right way in this case to decide whether surveillance is acceptable is by analogizing to the closest available cultural and instinctive concept that is still fully functional.
You realize you're not saying anything more than, "I think it's wrong, so I'm going to go searching for a rationalization," right?
I don't disagree that the surveillance we can safely suspect is being done by governmental organizations is probably immoral and should be illegal, but what I'm not hearing is a solid, justified argument for your position other than, "It's icky." You don't even have the fallback of "everyone thinks it's icky" since by your own admission, people don't.
I'm not interested in doing that hard philosophical work, personally, so I'll leave you with a suggestion. Privacy, at its root, is really about dignity: its most ancient manifestation is the capacity to relax without tainting one's public image, whatever that image may be. It is from this foundation that all other arguments about privacy are really built. So I'd challenge you to show that ubiquitous surveillance necessarily violates everyone's dignity.
I think you'll find that more difficult than you expect, but I don't think it's impossible to come up with a reasonably sound proof.