There isn't a problem with the CL community. There's a problem with the culture surrounding CL that seems to attract trolls.
Newbies get answers to genuine questions. I've received a great deal of help over the years from experience CL programmers. Anything from beginner questions to code reviews of various snippets I've been working on. I have received a lot of great advice over the years that has helped me tremendously. And I've seen other newcomers receive the same treatment as well. If you arrive in #lisp of c.l.l and have a genuine question about a problem you are stuck on you will likely attract someone willing to help you. It's a small community but it is friendly.
Second, CL was in the end designed to outlive itself. You get full programmatic access to the compiler and reader. It is trivial to add any feature a modern programmer may require that wasn't accounted for in the original specification. CLUEL could certainly have been useful if the author had finished it and put it out into the wild (maybe waiting until it was finished was the wrong choice).
I think if you are genuinely interested in learning CL you need to check your ego at the door, so to speak, and just start from scratch. Write programs that solve yours or your users' problems and ask questions in #lisp and on c.l.l if you get stuck. There is a wealth of great literature, papers, tools, and a small, friendly community to help you.
Edit: I meant to note that the reason the specification hasn't been updated, afaik, is because it doesn't have to be updated. All the tools you need to add the features you require are there in the spec. You can make it into the language you need.