Replaces the current day of the month with []:
$ cal | sed "s/.*/ & /;s/ $(date +%e) / [] /"
September 2013
Su Mo Tu We Th Fr Sa
1 2 3 4 5 6 7
8 9 [] 11 12 13 14
15 16 17 18 19 20 21
22 23 24 25 26 27 28
29 30