Depending on what you've lived through, what that snippet derides might not sound too bad. I mean, for those from war torn places, immigrants who worked hard, a secure job to take care of your family and see your children grow up isn't a bad dream at all. We simply have the luxury of making that our baseline.

If anything, my take-away is to recognize that those things aren't bad in it of themselves, but just don't mistake the dreams of others for your own.