edit: maybe I'm predisposed to being 'less compassionate' about stuff like this because I have indirect experience seeing a similar pattern with... close family members. $family_member had all the same or very similar 'chances' as I did in life vis a vis education, upbringing, etc, but instead chose a drug-based lifestyle leeching off parents, friends, etc. Said family member, in their mid 20s, is unemployed, living with parents, indulging in all sorts of recreational chemistry, and is predisposed to whine about 'how unfair' it all is, 'how depressed the job market is', and so forth as the reason they can't find a job, can't keep steady work when they do find one, etc. In this personal, anecdotal case, the problem isn't their environment, it's them. I see similar patterns in the WaPo story: even if your girlfriend breaks up with you, you still get your butt into work the next day. No whining, no excuses. It might not be the Greatest Job Ever (tm), but it's better (IMHO) than sitting around leeching off family.