All the time I wasn't talking about USA specifically.
And, as far as I understand, birth rates of the "people who you want to have kids" - people with education living near a large city - have already plummeted. Which is compensated by people who don't quite fit the society but instead reproduce to get something from the society.
Why will there be a cultural and societal rejection? A lot of people don't have babies already (or defer it until it's too late) and it's okay for everyone. Anyway, when you've got a nuclear family or a single person, it's not easy to reject or influence them - they'll give you a finger and start a new WoW gaming session.
And when you've got a society where childless family is the norm, it won't be easy to reverse until it's too late.
If you're ready to breeding humans in labs like cattle, why would you object to wiping out human populations we don't like?
Surely, humans have rights, but only the wild ones. Humans grown in labs are property.
Random pair bonding is what gives you a society. Anything else gives you androids that usually malfunct.
And the only reason we're talking about BI is because we think that people have rights and we have to cope with those.
What we're not in Africa is a fact. Female empowerment and education is also a fact. Let's think what are our next steps? Hint: it doesn't involve trying to make a few steps back.