I wrote a blog post about ADHD called "Why I Feel Like A Failure, Even Though On the Outside, I'm A Success..." I think it might resonate with many here: (http://www.erica.biz/2012/failure-success/)
I would ask that you please not be dismissive or stereotypical of what is a real medical issue that some of us have had to deal with our entire lives.
He is not dismissing people that REALLY has the issue, he is dismissing the fact that people has been throwing this around a lot, without any need.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDZFcDGpL4U
I was gobsmacked when I saw a teacher "diagnose" ADHD in one of her students. The fact that this is done regularly is flabbergasting.
I think jasonjei and you are on the same side of this issue. He was a normal kid that didn't want to be mis-labeled, and you have a real condition that deserves consideration. You should both be opposed to the lazy parents/teachers/doctors who extend ADHD diagnoses far beyond its real scope to medicate normal kids into compliance.
Jasonjei may well have a more subtle point in mind that agrees with what you wrote. It's not what was written.
And here's a different, more controversial point. We used to have psychiatric disorders called hysteria and homosexuality. Now those have been reclassified out of existence. No one knows which of the current disorders will meet with the same fate. It's not impossible that while the help you get from your treatment is real (and the problems you face are real), ADHD is a poorly defined disorder.
I don't think that homosexuality is a good example to illustrate your point that ADHD might not be a "real" disorder. There's no question that there are people who are homosexual, but we no longer refer to homosexuality as a disorder because we no longer believe that it requires treatment. If ADHD were to parallel homosexuality in this regard, then there would be people who actually have ADHD, but we would stop viewing this as an abnormal variation in behavior.
Your example of hysteria is a better one to illustrate your point though. We no longer believe that hysteria is a disorder because we no longer recognize it as an actual state of being.
Some people believe this will one day be the case. (Personally, I don't have strong opinions on the matter one way or the other. It's not something I've researched.)
(Looking to see if you'd written a followup, I instead found your 2006 post about Adderall. Of course that's a different drug, but the older post is interesting for both the contrasts and similarities to your later Ritalin assessment.)
Yes, I'm still on Ritalin--in addition, I found out that the night panics I'd been having (which I mentioned in that post as well) are actually sleep apnea. Turns out, when you can't breathe at night, you often wake up in a panic. Who'da thought? :)
I normally take 1 Ritalin per day now, instead of the 2 I've been prescribed. Days without it are still less productive than days with it. The biggest change, though, has been understanding how my ADHD ties in to just about everything I do...it was why I couldn't connect with people, why I had trouble getting things done, and why my productivity never seemed to be where I felt like it should be. (The whole "should" thing is a trap in and of itself, but that's a different post for another time.)
I vastly prefer Ritalin to Adderall since the Ritalin doesn't give me the "narrow focus" issue I complained about with Adderall in my 2006 post. Ritalin is generally considered to have more mild effects than Adderall, and different people react differently to them.
Feel free to email me with more specific questions if you like; email is in my profile.
So if Ritalin helps people to achieve their goals, great, but I don't think it implies that they had a medical issue when they were unable to complete those tasks.
He wasn't a problem at all, and his language was awesome! Sort of like C3PO on steroids.