It can get really hard to tell where the line is, though. For example, multiple for-pay third-party clients for Google Music now exist [0]. Personally, I think this is still a value-add for Google, but I could understand why some would think it's exploitative.
Another thought experiment: say the unofficial use of the platform originally required a fair amount of reverse engineering. Can the person who figured it out be held responsible for other's abusive behavior?