That's why it's better to be bold and crash spectacularly, instead of trying to cover up unexpected problem by guessing. If you have an unexpected null pointer, there is a reason, and your expectations were wrong, so there's something bad going on that you don't know about. By silently hiding the problem, your program may be doing the just wrong thing, and you never know about it.
That's the problem with PHP, which has it even worse than Objective C. Ignoring errors and guessing what to do is PHP's way of life, and it's been the cause of countless security holes, data corruptions, and hard to diagnose bugs.
Use lots and lots of pedantic asserts, and test thoroughly, so the production code does not have to be riddled with labyrinths of error handling and mitigation guessing code. Assume the APIs obey their contracts, and write APIs with strong contracts that do what they promise. If something might return a NULL, then test for it and handle it properly, so whoever is reading and maintaining your code knows that you considered the possibility and thought through the solution, and the computer doesn't have guess what to do.
Computers are notoriously bad at guessing the programmer's intentions, so programming languages should not encourage programmers to let the computer guess what they meant.