I ran into the problem of a big memory footprint and the tor browser running really slow (on my quite fast laptop with i7, ssd and 16 gb mem)
As far as it being slow to load sites, there will always be a high latency when using Tor. It’s the nature of onion routing. If Tor becomes more popular, I’m hoping there will be a way to donate to high bandwidth exit nodes to keep the network performance up.