The sexism on HN is obvious. It would be impossible for a male sex toy to end up on the HN front page. Prove me wrong, I dare you.
There's a lot of sexism out there, including on HN. But I'm not sure this is a good example of it.
Let's think about what exactly makes you think a dildo is a female-only toy. Then, critically think about who is the sexist.
Keep in mind that there are plenty of minors on HN, too.