"That said, she gets paid $95K for a part time job with full benefits. She had a similar job in the states that was full time and it paid $34,000 with minimal benefits."
And there you have it.
If you want to live in a society with high pay, good benefits, free Medicare, compulsory pension contributed to by your employer, etc -- then be prepared to pay.
Also, there is nothing stopping you from importing cheap clothing, goods, books, whatever from overseas.