$4,000 a month in alimony and child support.
I'm glad my wife has promised that I'll only leave this marriage feet-first.
ETA: whoops, I missed the part saying those were automatically deducted. Downmod me.
I'm glad my wife has promised that I'll only leave this marriage feet-first.
ETA: whoops, I missed the part saying those were automatically deducted. Downmod me.
I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you this, but those promises fly out the window as soon as times get tough.
No matter what you think she thinks of you, when the kids come and times get tough, she will look at you and weigh having you around vs. having automatic custody of the kids + child support + alimony.