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If I'm interested in an event topic (and have time, etc) then I go. end of.

Even if I disagree with the majority opinion, it's better to turn up and ask one polite awkward question than to just leave it to people who wouldn't question their own ideas there (making it a less interesting session).

> They don't say it explicitly, but hint with words like attendees are welcome to take their partners etc.

How is an invitation for guests to bring their partners make an event a private club?

It means that the partners wouldn't be invited except they happen to know someone in the club.

I think that says more about you than them.

How would you feel about men-focused male-in-tech conference? Not so cool, eh?

You know what would make it even worse? Having a note that said the men could bring a woman but only if they're romantically attached. There is no expectation that any women who show up are skilled or even inclined to the topic.

That tends to be the default.