List of Hacker Spaces
hackerspaces.org
hackerspaces.org
http://london.hackspace.org.uk
If you're interested in joining as a member please drop by and have a look around. Drop me a message and I'll give you a personal tour!
If you're interested to see how much 13,000 sqft of space costs in London, this is our live-updating "Cost of Hacking" page:
I do software. When I lived in Vienna, I frequently visited Metalab, which truly embraces hackers of any sort -- doesn't matter if you're into robotics, cryptography, Linux kernel or Ruby. I met great people there and after moving to London hoped to get into hackers community through London Hackspace.
Well, on my first visit, someone wearing white lab coat with London Hackspace logo told me that (literally) "software people are not welcome here -- they may as well work at Starbucks! We would prefer having more members who do hardware stuff because they require access to hardware tools and we provide this to them". Needless to say, I never came back. Starbucks, yeah.
So, great to hear you've moved, hope that now you are more tolerant towards software people.
The problem is that with over 700 members opinions of what the space is differ widely. The person you spoke to was almost certainly not someone who usually gives tours, and if it was known they were saying idiotic things like that they would have been corrected.
Saying "software people are not welcome" in a hackerspace is especially idiotic given that much hardware development requires custom code in the first place.
Honestly, I apologise for a bad first impression. Take me up on my offer of a personal tour and I'll show you around the new place.
We're open from 7pm to 10pm M-F, and if you have something to work on, pretty much any time there is somebody around to open the door.
Check out our live cam here (http://live.heatsynclabs.org) -- if you check in the next few minutes, I'm the guy in the front wearing the flannel :)
Edit to add: Also, TechShop. Menlo Park apparently has fewer crowds than SF, but it's further from you. And I've also heard good things about Hacker Dojo.
[1] http://hackerspaces.org/wiki/List_of_ALL_hackerspaces
[2] http://hackerspaces.org/wiki/Special:Ask/-5B-5BCategory:Hack...
[3] http://hackerspaces.org/w/index.php?title=Special:Ask&offset...
Since it is the top of a church, with terrible bandwidth, TOR exit node is not as appealing as it sounds.
I myself can't wait until computers are cheap and small enough to be disposable to the point where you can carry a few around with you and leave them behind. At that point, hackers around the world can install bandwidth throttled exit nodes on open-wifi signals around the world.
http://hackspace.org.uk/view/Main_Page
It looks like the nearest ones to you are Manchester and Leeds, both of which are excellent. If they're too far away then you should start a new space!
This is the guide we give to people when they ask for advice on how to get going: