I think things like options and any other legal is a very delicate stuffs and better be done with experts (lawyer, accountant etc).

For resources, here are few that i have in the arsenal:

Marketing: http://startup-marketing.com/ http://andrewchenblog.com/

Legal: http://www.thestartuplawyer.com/

General: http://startuplessonslearned.blogspot.com/ http://onstartups.com/

You can ask any topic: http://discuss.joelonsoftware.com/?biz http://news.ycombinator.com/

Hope it helps.