Ask HN: How do you re-invent yourself?
Would like to hear from the community, from people who have been able to bring pre-meditated positive change to their lives successfully. Many thanks for sharing.
Would like to hear from the community, from people who have been able to bring pre-meditated positive change to their lives successfully. Many thanks for sharing.
I don't know what type of change you are looking for, do you want a new career? a change of health habits?
I like to think I've 'changed' many times. But if I look back and ask if I'm a changed person? No, I'm not. I'm the present extension of the person I was in the past. Different in what I've changed, but still in many ways the same.
If you want to make large scale changes, start with a few small things that you can keep up for an extended period of time. Keep doing them, then add more.
I think maybe staying away from the books that promise massive changes may be a good idea.
Also, though you will want to measure your progress, be very concious of how you do that.
Constantly asking if you're happy can lead to not being happy, because you're always looking for this happiness.
Look at how Alcoholics Anonymous manages their people. The 12 steps has been used to help many different types of addicts and people to change their lives. I think it doesn't have to be only used to prevent negative behaviours, I'm sure it is just as valuable to instilling positive behaviours.
Best of luck, and I hope this helps.
For me personally,I am looking to change health habits. But while I was thinking about that I felt, health is just one area for me, this theme of driving change keeps repeating in different ways for me and am sure for others and hence the question is more directed toward driving change if you will because what people are after today will change tomorrow and getting there I think requires taking care of the basics which as you outlined in your reply. Thanks for writing !
Best of luck.