Sorry, but if you're using a Disney film as an example of a good portrayal of women, you've already lost.
I'm not using a Disney film as an example of a good portrayal of women, and neither is the author of the seduction book.
The implication is that the Disney movie, made and marketed for children, has a song called "Kiss the girl" which is about as rape-y as the advice in the seduction manual. Which is to say not at all.
Guess you better go tell a bunch of little girls that they aren't allowed to like whatever their favorite female Disney protagonist happens to be.
Yes, you want her
Look at her, you know you do
It’s possible she wants you, too
There is one way to ask her
It don’t take a word
Not a single word
Go on and kiss the girlor is it LAND CULTURE?
perhaps it is MER CULTURE??
(I haven't seen that movie in a long while.)