I guess to understand this one has to consider that Kickstarter is based in puritan America?
All this screams about rape for something that sums up to "you're about to have sex? Don't ask her to grab your dick, guide her hand to it".
2: one who practices or preaches a more rigorous or professedly purer moral code than that which prevails
I could make the parallel argument for The Anarchist's Cookbook, and the difference between publication and action, but what's the point? Gender politics has been extraordinarily effective at driving reason out of such discussions.