> I've long suspected 90% of the budgets and bills they are trying to pass is to help them offensively against other countries. And yet, 100% of their arguments in public were that they are needed for defense
Offense and defense are pretty muddied concepts for a superpower, when most activities it'll be doing could be categorized as "force projection", or something akin. Imposing the fear of retaliatory action is a valid method of defense.