You're a perfect example for his point.

In Steubenville, for example, and pretty much anywhere else. Oh, they will not tell you that rape is ethically ok – but they will tell you that something that is rape was nothing of the kind, that she/he asked for it or deserved it or has only herself/himself to blame.

A few things that come to mind:

- The concept of "rape culture"

- Questions like, "what should be done about the devastating affects on the life of someone accused (but acquitted) of rape?"

- Taking into consideration the impact on the accused, questions like "should women who make blatantly false or frivolous claims of rape be held liable?"

I don't claim to know the answers to any of these bullet points, but the fact of the matter is they are hotly contested even today- thus, debated.

There is a sizeable group of men on the Internet who don't get it, and are very vociferous about it. Cf, "Men's Rights"