Oh very good sir.
golf clapRequoting that is ridiculous. Allow me to list why:
1. There is nothing for the parent poster to feel ashamed about. Nothing he said is shame worthy.
2. He wasn't aggressive. It wasn't a knee-jerk reaction. It wasn't unprofessional, rude or childish.
3. The author of the bug didn't make a mistake. They submitted a bug report designed to be as brutal and belittling as possible. They didn't just lose their temper in the heat of the moment, they decided to setup a new account under a pseudoname, then blasted the author of the software product.
4. Writing software is indeed a team effort, but as with any team if one party abuses the other the team rapidly becomes less effective.
5. Feedback doesn't have to be abusive. It's a bit rich to say on the one hand feedback can be abusive, but on the other hand that abusive feedback must be then taken in a "civilized manner". Do you not see the contradiction?
6. There's nothing "prudish" about remarking that abusive bug reports don't make the bug get fixed faster or better. To be a prude, you must be excessively concerned about propriety, and there's nothing in the parent's comment that is excessive.
7. The parent's comment was a general comment, and wasn't an attempt to fix the bug. There's nothing misplaced about the poster's priorities. He's here to comment on HN, and that is indeed what he's done.