Yay, thank you for the rational discussion :)
The question I would ask you, dave, is why aren't you motivated? Why is motivation something that has to be done to you? Why don't you wake up jazzed to do your startup thing, at least a couple days a week?
I had a real awakening when I started to take the guilt load off myself, and started viewing all my actions (or inaction) not as indicative of my worth as a person, but simply choices, which had logical consequences, which I had to either accept or change. Consequences doesn't seem like a neutral term, but I do look at them fairly neutrally, not as punishments for being dillatory.
Not judging yourself is really hard -- from childhood on up we are told "No!" all the time, guided mainly by negative feedback or the carrot (which is attached to the stick), and it is insinuated that our being "lazy" or "unproductive" or "not fulfilling our promise" or "not being where we ought to be by now" is not just a choice, but a sin.
But boy does it feel better when you can achieve a more objective look at the situation.
I surely don't hyperventilate (literally, or psychically) over decisions or screw-ups any more.
When the mood strikes, I blog about these topics here:
http://www.justfuckingship.com/2008/08/letting-go-of-unfinis...
http://www.justfuckingship.com/2008/11/youre-a-terrible-mana...