I understand the frustration of working with a fat protocol. What is a viable, open alternative though?
I ended up making my own -- I based it on IRC but wrapped it in JSON. It's stupid simple because chat should be easy.
http://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2013/01/antarc...
best i:line ever.
I said IRC semi in jest before because it's very old and there really should be something lightweight that ought to take IRC's place in this web 2.0 world of ours.
It's very good for its intended purpose, but it's not good for IM usage.