> if I cut myself off of Facebook I'm losing out on a huge, huge percentage of social interaction
Is it possible to have a Facebook account but just use it as a back-end? For instance, don't use the website or the app. But use Cue to pull events out onto your calendar, and Verbs to get Facebook chat, and so on?
Is there a way to use a constellation of apps that access Facebook info so that you effectively don't have to be on Facebook itself?