Being careless with other peoples' things is not generally a crime. It might be the basis for a civil suit, but it's not generally criminal.
Criminal law is all about intent. There are four kinds of intent (under the Model Penal Code): Purpose, Knowledge, Recklessness, Negligence. Mere negligence is rarely the basis for criminal liability (it is, however, the basis for tort law). Criminal liability starts at recklessness. Weev is punished and AT&T is not because Weev intended to improperly access data he was not supposed to access, while AT&T was merely negligent in allowing him to do so.
We treat the stupid better than the malicious, and I personally think that's a good thing.