> They are a very inaccurate abstraction of how the world works.
No, they are only inaccurate software abstractions of the business abstractions they are supposed to model. People like immutability and reversibility of concepts and that's why they try to apply it in business, law, finance etc.
But the real/natural world, at least from our subjective perspective is not like that. Things in the world are not practically reversible or immutable - you cannot "restore" a deadbody. The real world is loosy and mutable, at least from an agent's perspective. The human brain is so efficient at what it does simply because it just "throws way* (irreversibly!) so much information every second, filtering for just what it needs. A small corner of the world is our "business/finance world" and using immutability and reversibility is great here, but there's way more to computing than implementing business/finances logic and processes in software!.
...if you think about it, classical OOP is inspired from cellular biology (can't find the reference now, some musing of Alan Kay I think...), so it's no wonder why it's such a trouble maker when used to model business logic, it was the wrong tool for the job from the get go. But generalizing that mutable data structures are a bad tool to model and understand the world in general is waaaay overstretched, the world is bigger than "business", and all modeling approaches are equally useful.