Conversations are not formal proof, in pure logic.
And logical fallacies are not pure logic either. More like guidelines.
In the real world, where you don't have all the information at hand, and you have trust levels and possibilities and resource limits, a "logical fallacy" can be more beneficial (statistically) than not.
Case in point: "appeal to authority". If I'm sick, I'd rather trust my doctor, than a non-doctor guy, just for the fact that the doctor has a MD and he does not. I don't have time to study medicine and examine both approaches (e.g I could be bleeding to death). So the more rational thing to do here is listen to the authority, not the random guy.
Similar issues can be found for most of the other fallacies, from ad hominem to no-true-scotchman and beyond.
Nice guidelines, but by no means complete and by no means appropriate for all real life situations.
Like Occam's Razor. It's just a guideline too. Sometimes the MORE complex story, with the more entities involved in it, is the one that actually happened. E.g in police cases. There is often a clean-cut explanation that might seem obvious but is wrong, and a more involved story that is what actually happened. Lots of innocent have fell prey to the "obvious" and "simple" explanation, only to be proven innocent many years later.
Think of the movie "Arlington Road". What would most people think of the events, not knowing the whole story? "But most real cases are not like Arlington Road!" My point exactly. Most, not all. Occam's razor is a guideline, not a logical necessity.